Singleness: a period in everyone’s life that varies from a short time of being uncoupled to a lifelong pattern. Society presents singleness as a sacrifice one makes to achieve their goals and dreams, or something to be shed as fast as possible to gain an attractive, successful spouse.
However, in God’s eyes, singleness can actually be a blessing. 1 Corinthians 7 describes singleness as sparing someone the struggles of marriage, so they can embrace more of God’s calling on their life.
Though many singles have probably been told how it is an advantage to be unattached, even if we wholeheartedly believe this, we still might find it hard to give proof when asked by a disgruntled single person. The five blessings listed below are meant to give comfort and encouragement to single Christians. Whether they are waiting for the one God has chosen for them or they are not sure if they are even supposed to get married, these blessings are available to them during this time.
One of the most important blessings that comes from not being married is that you will have more time to spend with God and learn more of His plan for your life. With a spouse and children, it can be hard to find that uninterrupted time to focus on hearing God’s voice and following the promptings of the Holy Spirit.
As a single person, it is just between you and God as you discuss the path ahead and what He believes you can become as His child. In 1 Corinthians 7:7-10, even the apostle Paul shares the importance of being single as opposed to married, mentioning that you will be able to learn more about your gift from the Lord as a single person. So, if the apostle Paul thinks blessings can come in singlehood, then you know God will bless this time.
Another blessing of being single is it gives you more opportunities to learn who you are as a person and as a Christian. You have probably heard from countless married people that once you are married, your priorities change. Sure, you and your spouse, if equally yoked, are still pursuing God’s plans for your life. But as Genesis 2:24 states, you become one flesh with your spouse through marriage, and that means combining interests, time, and faith for a shared pursuit of the Lord.
During this season of singleness, maybe you will have time to travel the world and grow as a person, exploring different countries; or maybe you will be able to lead that in-home Bible study you always wanted to, and grow spiritually. Whatever you are led to do, know that this time is precious to grow into the person God sees you to be – whether for a spouse or in general.
Something I have heard regularly from single people, and enjoyed when I was single, was the ample time to spend with family and friends. It was easier to drop anything and go out to dinner with a friend or take that unforgettable trip away with family that creates memories for a lifetime. When you are single, you have more of yourself to give to those closest to you, and you don’t have to worry about having to determine availability with two schedules in mind. Jesus even speaks of the importance of loving our family members and friends as He has loved us, even showing this great love through sacrificing for those we care about (John 15:12-13). If you are willing to love people the way God loves us, then you will also grow to love yourself more and, in turn, love your future spouse as well.
When you are married, with or without kids, one aspect of life that can take a secondary position is rest. Taking time to focus on rest and caring for yourself becomes a little less of a priority as you also care for the needs of your spouse and children.
However, when you are single, you can make it a point to care for your needs, especially getting proper rest. God Himself gave us the example of prioritizing rest when He devoted the seventh day of the week to rest. Jesus also reminds us that with rest comes the release of struggles we are holding onto. We can know and trust that God will take care of the worries on our minds (Matthew 11:28). So, taking time to get some rest, which in turn allows you to care for your needs, brings another blessing from this season of singleness.
Singleness brings several blessings that we have already mentioned, from extra time with loved ones to getting that uninterrupted rest during the day. But for some in this time of being single, it means coming before God in prayer with your hopes, dreams, and prayers for what the future might bring. This time of reflection with God will reveal to you whether He has called you to a season of singleness or if He is preparing you for that special someone to share your life with.
The apostle Paul again reminds us of the difference between a single person and a married person through 1 Corinthians 7:34, where a single man or woman is devoted to God’s plans while a married man or woman is more focused on their spouse’s needs. With that perspective in mind, as a single person, you have the opportunity to pray for God’s direction for your life and whether that is with a spouse by your side or you and God.
For some, being single, in this day and age, feels like an asset. To others, it is a thorn in their side. Some lament not being married by a certain point in their lives, while others are thankful they don’t have to deal with the challenges of marriage.
What we saw in the five blessings mentioned above is that God is responsible for every blessing and He guides your path, whether it is toward a significant other or toward a solo life. This is because God knows what you need for the path He is leading you on, and He won’t withhold any promises or blessings that align with this plan.
So, if you are unsure about your single status – whether this is a result of high expectations for a spouse or uncertainty for the path ahead of you – know that taking these questions and concerns to the Lord is the best option to truly know what He wants to do. And if the Scripture references are any indication, reading God’s Word also solidifies where God may be leading you next. If you are single right now, embrace this time of discovery, knowing that where you are placed next will help you grow and bloom even more.
Blair Parke is a freelance writer for BibleStudyTools.com and freelance book editor who wrote her first book, "Empty Hands Made Full," in 2021 about her journey through infertility with her husband. She previously worked for eight years with Xulon Press as an editor. A graduate of Stetson University with a bachelor's in communications, Blair previously worked as a writer/editor for several local magazines in the Central Florida area, including Celebration Independent and Lake Magazine and currently writes for the Southwest Orlando Bulletin. She's usually found with a book in her hand or enjoying quality time with her husband Jeremy and dog Molly. You can order her book at Christian Author Bookstore - Xulon Press Publishing and visit her website at Parkeplaceediting.
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