When we have a crush, we often feel an undeniable attraction to someone. It's an exciting part of life but can also feel overwhelming at times. In this part, we reflect on what the Bible says about attraction and love. We recognize that attraction is a natural human experience, and understanding it through the lens of scripture can provide clarity. God created us with feelings, and seeking guidance on how to manage those feelings is key. The verses below remind us to approach our feelings with care and intention, ensuring that our actions align with God’s love.

“Let him lead me to the banquet hall, and let his banner over me be love.” – Song of Solomon 2:4

“May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.” – Proverbs 5:18

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” – Proverbs 4:23

“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear…” – 1 John 4:18

“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” – Colossians 3:14

Having a crush is often the beginning of wanting to build a relationship with that person. Here, we reflect on what a healthy relationship looks like according to the Word of God. Our emphasis is on kindness, respect, and understanding that relationships take effort and care. Being guided by biblical principles can help us nurture a strong foundation for any relationship we wish to pursue. These verses will remind us of the importance of treating others with love and integrity.

“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” – Ephesians 4:2

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-5

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” – Philippians 2:3

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” – 1 Peter 4:8

“Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.” – Romans 13:10

Having a crush stirs up many emotions within us. Excitement, nervousness, and sometimes even fear can take over our hearts. It's crucial for us to process these emotions through a biblical lens. When we understand our feelings, we can make decisions based on wisdom rather than impulse. Here, we focus on verses that remind us of the importance of emotional health and grounding ourselves in God’s love as we navigate these feelings.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” – Philippians 4:6-7

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18

“Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up.” – Proverbs 12:25

“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” – James 1:5

“Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken.” – Psalms 55:22

How we respond to our crushes is vital, and the Lord calls us to make wise choices. It's important to look for direction in the Bible regarding our decisions about whom to pursue and how to treat them. Seeking wisdom allows us to reflect on whether our motivations are pure and respectful. These verses encourage us to rely on God's understanding and wisdom when making choices about romantic interests.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6

“But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.” – James 3:17

“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.'” – Isaiah 30:21

“Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.” – Proverbs 19:20

“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” – Proverbs 16:3

With a crush, it's easy to become consumed by thoughts about that person, leading to discontent if things do not progress as we hope. The Bible teaches us that true contentment comes from our relationship with God rather than our romantic aspirations. By focusing on what we have and finding joy in our current circumstances, we can develop peace. These verses encourage us to cultivate a heart of contentment, reminding us that God has a perfect plan for each of our lives.

“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.” – Philippians 4:11-12

“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” – Matthew 6:33

“But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it.” – 1 Timothy 6:6-7

“Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, ‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.'” – Hebrews 13:5

“Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” – Psalm 37:4

Crushes can often feel urgent, like we should move quickly. However, the Bible teaches us the value of patience and trusting God's timing. In relationships, especially, it’s essential to be patient and let things unfold naturally. Relying on God’s timing allows us to enjoy the journey rather than rushing ahead. These verses remind us to have faith in God's perfect timing and to be patient with ourselves and others in our romantic interests.

“Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.” – Psalm 27:14

“The Lord is good to those who hope is in him, to the one who seeks him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” – Lamentations 3:25-26

“But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.” – Romans 8:25

“He has made everything beautiful in its time.” – Ecclesiastes 3:11

“Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly.” – Proverbs 14:29

When we find ourselves crushing on someone, one of the most powerful things we can do is pray for that person. It’s an expression of love and care that goes beyond our own feelings. As we pray, we also invite God into our situation, seeking His guidance for our hearts and our crushes. These verses remind us of the importance of prayer and the power it holds in shaping our emotions and relationships.

“Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed…” – James 5:16

“I thank my God every time I remember you.” – Philippians 1:3

“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” – Matthew 7:7

“Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.” – Colossians 4:2

As we navigate our feelings for our crush, it’s essential to remember that we are part of a bigger plan that God has for each of us. Trusting God's plan means letting go of our control and believing that He knows what’s best for our hearts. These verses emphasize the importance of faith and trusting that God will lead us in our romantic pursuits, whether with our crush or in His broader desires for our lives.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” – Jeremiah 29:11

“The Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in him.” – Psalm 37:23

“In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” – Proverbs 16:9

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” – Isaiah 55:8-9

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” – Romans 8:28

As we reflect on the journey of having a crush, it's important to remember that our feelings and the relationships we pursue can be shaped by our faith. The Bible provides us with wisdom and guidance for navigating attraction, building healthy relationships, and trusting God's plan for our lives. By embracing patience, praying for our crush, and seeking contentment in Christ, we cultivate a joyful heart that prepares us for love in all its forms. Let's lean on God's word as our source of strength, guidance, and encouragement in our romantic hopes and dreams.

In our journey, we are reminded that love is about more than just feelings; it’s about kindness, respect, and integrity. As we allow God's love to guide our hearts, we can confidently embrace the beautiful adventure of love and connection, knowing we are cherished and supported every step of the way.

May we continue to seek His wisdom, embrace the beauty of relationships, and cherish the love that ultimately comes from Him.